Sunday, February 14, 2010

The Secret to your Success

You’re probably sick to the back teeth of titles like the one above; I’d be willing to bet you’ve been told how easy it can be to make lots of money, or get the love of your life, or get your dream house, car, or live debt-free, or whatever! Right?

I’d also be willing to bet you’re nowhere nearer to achieving your desires than you ever were before. You’ve bought this scheme and that scam. You’ve paid, maybe thousands of $’s, £’s, €’s (or whatever your currency is!) to find that the thing you’ve bought doesn’t do anything near to what the advert told you it would! Serious “buyer’s remorse” kicks in and you seek a refund. And your quest goes on. Right?

You must, by now, have wondered why “they” seem to be able to “make it”, while you can’t even catch the crumbs from their tables! The Secret (sorry if there’s a trademark infringement there folks, but there are only so many words in the English language that can be used!!) is within! And you’ve probably had that thrust down your throat too, right?

What’s happening is this. All those guys and gals that ARE making their piece of the pie have got a fantastic ally to assist them on their path. It’s an old piece of “software”, billions of years old, that programs each and every one of us to keep doing all the things that we always have, or recently learned to do. It gives us an image of ourselves and our place in the world and helps us, as near as possible to survive another day.

It uses information based on our beliefs to keep us as close as it can to the way we have always been. The logic is that you survived yesterday, so if you do the same things today, you’ll survive again. (Unfortunately, the life you find yourself in may be complete crap; it’s time to change!)

It’s called “The Subconscious”. You’ve heard of it no doubt. It constantly monitors what we say, do and think and it compares all this with its own, stored beliefs and images. If you have an idea that is WAY outside what you normally think, it will do its utmost to stop it dead! As your new idea is something that your inner mind has had no experience of, it will resist it’s inclusion in your make-up. This is because you survived yesterday without it, so you’ll survive very well today if you carry on without it.

Your mind, in essence is not ACCUSTOMED to running your life with this new information, so it unceremoniously discards it! It will do whatever it feels necessary to “protect” you, (even if your life is currently filled with suffering and pain, it knows how to help you survive from one day to the next, so this is how it will keep things!)

Out of its fear of the unknown, it will make you sit when you want to stand; it will make you stand when you want to sit! It’s a bit like a spoilt child that’s scared of “change”. It doesn’t understand how it will manage to keep you safe if you keep trying new things, so, it will make you feel unwell; or inadequate; or not “good enough”. It will make you feel “weak” and “small”! It will make you impatient toward doing things that you need to do that you know will help you. It will make you feel as if you need to hide or “run to mummy!” It will try to “trip” you up and disturb you. It will find all sorts of distractions. It will instil as many feelings of discomfort and insignificance in you as it can until you “toe the line” and make you keep on doing what you always did! (It’s VERY clever; it wants you to survive!

Imagine if its power was on your side (which is VERY “do-able!” Just read on…..) Eventually though, if you are persistent, it will see that you are sincere and it will start to help! It will make you feel powerful and strong! Confident and capable. All the things you’ll need to succeed will be made available within you.

“Successful” people have all this. But in their case, the inner mind has seen sufficient occasions where these “new” ideas are acceptable and it can work them into their make-up! So when they see something they want, their inner mind actually HELPS them to achieve it!! The two parts of their minds become, are somehow sychronised!

So! What can you do to “train” your inner being to help you?
- Recognize the feelings! Know where they stem from and why they are there! (It’s just your inner programming trying to look after you!
- Know that these feelings are short-term, if you are consistent in your desire to have the changes. Eventually, your inner mind will stop resisting you.

You can achieve this, in as little as 21 days!! Consistently tell yourself that you will have the things that you want and, almost miraculously, situations and circumstances will arise that will make them happen for you. Your inner mind will bring to you all the things that you really want; all you have to be is sincere in your desires. Your personal miracles are being fashioned for you – by your very own inner mind!! Even your nearest-and-dearest, who up 'til now probably thought you were an idiot for wasting your time and money, will start to say and do things that support your dreams and ambitions. Somehow, your mind is influencing the minds of the people around you! Opportunity presents itself to you frequently and those people who would scam you, somehow leave you alone. Life becomes a series of easily achieved miracles.

So to re-iterate, the reason you’re still searching and trying to succeed is that you’re greatest friend is still not fully on your side. I believe that one of the major problems with books like “The Secret” is that they are too long and complicated. You start the book full of good feelings about the way things are going to be, but somehow you get side-tracked and eventually give up.

Part of my mission with these posts is to get you to realise how simple it can be to believe in your abilities and reach for the stars. Get the inner mind on your side and you’ll get EVERYTHING you want!

It won't matter how many "get rich" programs you buy, you can, and probably will fail! But change how your mind works .....

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Always remember - what you expect to happen always happens! - Brian Tracy.

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